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Tutoring Matters: Everything You Always Wanted To Know About How To Tutor
by Jerome Rabow
Temple University Press, 1999 Cloth: 978-1-56639-695-0 | Paper: 978-1-56639-696-7 Library of Congress Classification LC41.R33 1999 Dewey Decimal Classification 371.394
ABOUT THIS BOOK | AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY | REVIEWS | TOC
ABOUT THIS BOOK
Inside each of us is the promise of a tutor. If you've ever taught a child to tie her shoe, or helped a friend with his homework, or even helped a stranger understand a posted sign, you have it in you to empower others through learning. Tutors are allowed to do what teachers and parents are often not able to do. They can be patient, observe, question, support, challenge, and applaud. They can move towards nurturing the true and total intelligence of their tutees. Learning to tutor is simply overcoming fears, sharing and acquiring knowledge, and appreciating the potential and wisdom in each other.
Tutoring Matters is the authoritative manual for both the aspiring and seasoned tutor. Using firsthand experiences of over one hundred new and experienced tutors, this long-awaited guide offers chapters on attitudes and anxieties, teaching techniques, and building relationships. It educates the tutor on how to handle and appreciate social and language differences; how to use other adults -- teachers, administrators, parents, employers -- to a student's advantage; and, when your student or circumstances determine that it's time, how to put a positive and supportive end to the tutor-tutee relationship.
Written by experienced tutors and tutoring educators, Tutoring Matters celebrates -- and provides just the right tools for -- an individualized and successful tutoring relationship and shows just how much you can learn -- about the world and yourself -- through teaching others.
AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY
Jerome Rabow, the recipient of numerous distinguished teaching awards, is co-author of Cracks in the Classroom Wall: An Analysis with Readings. He is Professor Emeritus of Sociology at the University of California, Los Angeles.
Tiffani Chin is an experienced tutor and Ph.D. candidate researching education and sociology at UCLA.
Nima A. Fahimian, also an experienced tutor, studies medicine at the UCLA School of Medicine.
REVIEWS
"This book offers a scholarly and practical perspective on tutoring both as an art and [as a] science. It is a must read for those who hope to be effective tutors, for those who intend to establish serious tutorial programs, for educators and policy-makers."
—Walter R. Allen, Professor of Sociology and African American Studies, UCLA
"...The authors do more than prepare tutors to teach; through poignant vignettes and judicious advice, they prepare tutors to form relationships and, in the process, to learn more about themselves."
—Sonia M. Nieto, University of Massachusetts
"This book targets and solves the many relationship problems between tutors and clients with insight and sensitivity"
—Selma R. Zimmerman, New York City Board of Education
TABLE OF CONTENTS
CONTENTS
Preface and Acknowledgments
Introduction
Recommended Reading
1: Attitudes, Anxieties, and Expectations
Normal Fears and Anxieties Will the Students Like Me?
Will I Like My Students?
Will I Be Able to Fit in with and Understand Kids Who Are Different?
Will I Be Able to Teach the Students?
Will I Succeed?
Unconditional Acceptance Attitudes
Giving Up Expectations
Displaying Enthusiasm and Interest
Feeling Empathy Practices
Practicing Patience
Being Observant and Asking Questions
Interacting as an Equal
Recommended Reading
2. Building Relationships
Making Connections Responding to a Request for Help
Picking up on an Interest
Avoiding Gifts and Bribes
Building Trust
Overcoming Past Experiences
Showing Respect
Establishing Reciprocity
A Few Practical Concerns Motivating Students to Learn Applying Tutee Interests
Providing Companionship
Bargaining on the Relationship
Setting Goals Going beyond Academics
Establishing Boundaries Dealing with Jealousy
Preventing Overdependence
Recommended Reading
3. Teaching Techniques
Getting Students Interested and Involved Drawing on Student Interests
Making Work Visual and Hands-On
Encouraging Friendly Competition
Easing Student Fears Showing Support
Breaking Assignments into Manageable Steps
Tying in Familiar Concepts
Letting the Student Lead Listening to Students
Looking at What's Not Working
Adjusting as You Go Challenging Students
Recognizing Student Ploys
Recommended Reading
4. Race, Gender, Class, and Background
Anticipating Differences Before the Relationship Begins Quieting Presite Fears
Evaluating First Impressions
Adjusting to Organizational Set-Ups Riding the Roller-Coaster Relationship Allowing for the Student's Attitude
Putting Your Foot in Your Mouth
Coping with Situations You Have No Idea How to Deal With Overcoming Differences Fitting in and Being as "Same" as Possible
Maximizing Acceptance of Your Difference
Opening Up a Conversation
Recommended Reading
5. Other Adults: Parents, Teachers, and Administrators
Attitudes and Involvement of the Other Adults Involvement with the Tutors
General Interest and Involvement in the Students' Lives
Discouragement and Lack of Involvement
Assignments and Activities
Labeling What Can I Do as a Tutor? Forming Relationships with the Other Adults
Trying to Ignore Labels
Recommended Reading
6. Good-byes: Ending the Tutoring Relationship
Difficulties in Saying Good-bye
Harmful Ways of Saying Good-bye Not Saying Good-bye
Making Empty Promises
How to Say Good-bye: The Clean-Break Principle
Gifts
Talking about the Experience
Learning Experiences
Recommended Reading
Twenty-Five Final Pointers for Tutors
To the Reader
Bibliography
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Tutoring Matters: Everything You Always Wanted To Know About How To Tutor
by Jerome Rabow
Temple University Press, 1999 Cloth: 978-1-56639-695-0 Paper: 978-1-56639-696-7
Inside each of us is the promise of a tutor. If you've ever taught a child to tie her shoe, or helped a friend with his homework, or even helped a stranger understand a posted sign, you have it in you to empower others through learning. Tutors are allowed to do what teachers and parents are often not able to do. They can be patient, observe, question, support, challenge, and applaud. They can move towards nurturing the true and total intelligence of their tutees. Learning to tutor is simply overcoming fears, sharing and acquiring knowledge, and appreciating the potential and wisdom in each other.
Tutoring Matters is the authoritative manual for both the aspiring and seasoned tutor. Using firsthand experiences of over one hundred new and experienced tutors, this long-awaited guide offers chapters on attitudes and anxieties, teaching techniques, and building relationships. It educates the tutor on how to handle and appreciate social and language differences; how to use other adults -- teachers, administrators, parents, employers -- to a student's advantage; and, when your student or circumstances determine that it's time, how to put a positive and supportive end to the tutor-tutee relationship.
Written by experienced tutors and tutoring educators, Tutoring Matters celebrates -- and provides just the right tools for -- an individualized and successful tutoring relationship and shows just how much you can learn -- about the world and yourself -- through teaching others.
AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY
Jerome Rabow, the recipient of numerous distinguished teaching awards, is co-author of Cracks in the Classroom Wall: An Analysis with Readings. He is Professor Emeritus of Sociology at the University of California, Los Angeles.
Tiffani Chin is an experienced tutor and Ph.D. candidate researching education and sociology at UCLA.
Nima A. Fahimian, also an experienced tutor, studies medicine at the UCLA School of Medicine.
REVIEWS
"This book offers a scholarly and practical perspective on tutoring both as an art and [as a] science. It is a must read for those who hope to be effective tutors, for those who intend to establish serious tutorial programs, for educators and policy-makers."
—Walter R. Allen, Professor of Sociology and African American Studies, UCLA
"...The authors do more than prepare tutors to teach; through poignant vignettes and judicious advice, they prepare tutors to form relationships and, in the process, to learn more about themselves."
—Sonia M. Nieto, University of Massachusetts
"This book targets and solves the many relationship problems between tutors and clients with insight and sensitivity"
—Selma R. Zimmerman, New York City Board of Education
TABLE OF CONTENTS
CONTENTS
Preface and Acknowledgments
Introduction
Recommended Reading
1: Attitudes, Anxieties, and Expectations
Normal Fears and Anxieties Will the Students Like Me?
Will I Like My Students?
Will I Be Able to Fit in with and Understand Kids Who Are Different?
Will I Be Able to Teach the Students?
Will I Succeed?
Unconditional Acceptance Attitudes
Giving Up Expectations
Displaying Enthusiasm and Interest
Feeling Empathy Practices
Practicing Patience
Being Observant and Asking Questions
Interacting as an Equal
Recommended Reading
2. Building Relationships
Making Connections Responding to a Request for Help
Picking up on an Interest
Avoiding Gifts and Bribes
Building Trust
Overcoming Past Experiences
Showing Respect
Establishing Reciprocity
A Few Practical Concerns Motivating Students to Learn Applying Tutee Interests
Providing Companionship
Bargaining on the Relationship
Setting Goals Going beyond Academics
Establishing Boundaries Dealing with Jealousy
Preventing Overdependence
Recommended Reading
3. Teaching Techniques
Getting Students Interested and Involved Drawing on Student Interests
Making Work Visual and Hands-On
Encouraging Friendly Competition
Easing Student Fears Showing Support
Breaking Assignments into Manageable Steps
Tying in Familiar Concepts
Letting the Student Lead Listening to Students
Looking at What's Not Working
Adjusting as You Go Challenging Students
Recognizing Student Ploys
Recommended Reading
4. Race, Gender, Class, and Background
Anticipating Differences Before the Relationship Begins Quieting Presite Fears
Evaluating First Impressions
Adjusting to Organizational Set-Ups Riding the Roller-Coaster Relationship Allowing for the Student's Attitude
Putting Your Foot in Your Mouth
Coping with Situations You Have No Idea How to Deal With Overcoming Differences Fitting in and Being as "Same" as Possible
Maximizing Acceptance of Your Difference
Opening Up a Conversation
Recommended Reading
5. Other Adults: Parents, Teachers, and Administrators
Attitudes and Involvement of the Other Adults Involvement with the Tutors
General Interest and Involvement in the Students' Lives
Discouragement and Lack of Involvement
Assignments and Activities
Labeling What Can I Do as a Tutor? Forming Relationships with the Other Adults
Trying to Ignore Labels
Recommended Reading
6. Good-byes: Ending the Tutoring Relationship
Difficulties in Saying Good-bye
Harmful Ways of Saying Good-bye Not Saying Good-bye
Making Empty Promises
How to Say Good-bye: The Clean-Break Principle
Gifts
Talking about the Experience
Learning Experiences
Recommended Reading
Twenty-Five Final Pointers for Tutors
To the Reader
Bibliography
ABOUT THIS BOOK | AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY | REVIEWS | TOC