University of Alabama Press, 2002 Cloth: 978-0-8173-1159-9 | eISBN: 978-0-8173-8269-8 Library of Congress Classification PS3553.O883Z475 2002 Dewey Decimal Classification 813.54
ABOUT THIS BOOK | AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY | REVIEWS | TOC
ABOUT THIS BOOK
This thoughtful, engaging collection showcases the best nonfiction prose produced by one of the nation's most observant and incisive writers.
This collection of warm, heartfelt essays from award-winning novelist Vicki Covington chronicles the multitude of "in between" moments in the writer's life. These are her stolen moments in between the writing of four novels-Gathering Home, Bird of Paradise, Night Ride Home, and The Last Hotel for Women; in between coauthoring the edgy memoir Cleaving: The Story of a Marriage with her husband Dennis Covington; in between raising two daughters; in between her husband's struggle with cancer and the author's own heart attack; in between a life full of trials and triumphs, disappointments and celebrations - moments that, as Covington demonstrates here, are always rich and revealing.
In the title essay, the author questions why all seven middle-class women who live on her street confess at a neighborhood cookout that in the past 48 hours each of them has cried. In "A Southern Thanksgiving," Covington reflects on the "family dance" that is Thanksgiving in the South: "In the North they put their crazy family members in institutions, but in the South we put them in the living room for everyone to enjoy." In "My Mother's Brain," the author recounts the onset of Alzheimer's in her mother and how, with the spread of the disease, an untapped vein of love is revealed.
Some of these essays were written as weekly newspaper columns for the Birmingham News. Others were written for specific literary occasions, such as the First Annual Eudora Welty Symposium. They are divided into six thematic sections: "Girls and Women," "Neighborhood," "Death," "The South," "Spiritual Matters," and "Writing."
Throughout, as Covington casts her candid, attentive eye on a situation, confusion yields to comprehension, fear flourishes into faith, and anger flows into understanding. In memorializing the small moments of her life, she finds that they are far from peripheral; indeed, they are central to a life full of value and meaning.
AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY
Vicki Marsh Covington is the author of four novels, Gathering Home, Bird of
Paradise, Night Ride Home, and The Last Hotel for Women. Most
recently, she is coauthor of Cleaving: The Story of a Marriage,
a memoir written with her husband, writer Dennis Covington. The Covingtons
live in Birmingham, Alabama.
REVIEWS
"This collection will be greeted by the many fans of Ms. Covington's work in the region of the American South. Nationally, women's studies scholars may also find it valuable."
—Connie May Fowler, author of Before Women had Wings
— -
"Vicki Covington's essays have a mix of Baptist and feminist to them that is amusing, maybe even slightly frightening. That's the edge that carries this collection and what I love, what I find so compelling about it. In that way, Vicki is every Southern woman."
—Nanci Kincaid, author of Crossing Blood
— -
TABLE OF CONTENTS
GIRLS AND WOMEN
Women in a Man's World, Crying 3
The Girls' Locker Room 6
Her Breast 9
Women in Prison 12
Nails 15
Girls Playing Hardball 18
The Father-Daughter Game 21
NEIGHBORHOOD
A Southern Thanksgiving 27
Donor 30
A Simple Life 33
Recipes and the Friends Who Went with Them 36
Barbie 39
School Lunch 42
Michael Jordan's Midlife Crisis 44
DEATH
Burying Annie 49
Crossing the Viaduct 52
My Mother's Brain 55
Race Car Drivers and Writers 58
December, a Grandmother's Dying 61
Nixon 64
Jackie 67
The Mouse 70
THE SOUTH
The South Catches On to AIDS 75
The AIDS Care Team 78
The Family Reunion 81
Grits 84
The Southern Art of Feeding 87
Museum 89
The Disappearing South 92
SPIRITUAL MATTERS
The Star of Wonder 97
Jan, My Cousin 100
The Apple Tree 103
Mother's Day 105
Other People's Hell 108
Normandy 110
Letters from the War 113
On Marriage 116
A Feminist Easter 119
Eros 122
The Moon, Twenty-five Years Later 125
WRITING
Walking on Water 131
Writers Don't Wear Petticoats 137
Imagination's Birth 140
The Horse 144
The House Within 148
Epilogue 155
University of Alabama Press, 2002 Cloth: 978-0-8173-1159-9 eISBN: 978-0-8173-8269-8
This thoughtful, engaging collection showcases the best nonfiction prose produced by one of the nation's most observant and incisive writers.
This collection of warm, heartfelt essays from award-winning novelist Vicki Covington chronicles the multitude of "in between" moments in the writer's life. These are her stolen moments in between the writing of four novels-Gathering Home, Bird of Paradise, Night Ride Home, and The Last Hotel for Women; in between coauthoring the edgy memoir Cleaving: The Story of a Marriage with her husband Dennis Covington; in between raising two daughters; in between her husband's struggle with cancer and the author's own heart attack; in between a life full of trials and triumphs, disappointments and celebrations - moments that, as Covington demonstrates here, are always rich and revealing.
In the title essay, the author questions why all seven middle-class women who live on her street confess at a neighborhood cookout that in the past 48 hours each of them has cried. In "A Southern Thanksgiving," Covington reflects on the "family dance" that is Thanksgiving in the South: "In the North they put their crazy family members in institutions, but in the South we put them in the living room for everyone to enjoy." In "My Mother's Brain," the author recounts the onset of Alzheimer's in her mother and how, with the spread of the disease, an untapped vein of love is revealed.
Some of these essays were written as weekly newspaper columns for the Birmingham News. Others were written for specific literary occasions, such as the First Annual Eudora Welty Symposium. They are divided into six thematic sections: "Girls and Women," "Neighborhood," "Death," "The South," "Spiritual Matters," and "Writing."
Throughout, as Covington casts her candid, attentive eye on a situation, confusion yields to comprehension, fear flourishes into faith, and anger flows into understanding. In memorializing the small moments of her life, she finds that they are far from peripheral; indeed, they are central to a life full of value and meaning.
AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY
Vicki Marsh Covington is the author of four novels, Gathering Home, Bird of
Paradise, Night Ride Home, and The Last Hotel for Women. Most
recently, she is coauthor of Cleaving: The Story of a Marriage,
a memoir written with her husband, writer Dennis Covington. The Covingtons
live in Birmingham, Alabama.
REVIEWS
"This collection will be greeted by the many fans of Ms. Covington's work in the region of the American South. Nationally, women's studies scholars may also find it valuable."
—Connie May Fowler, author of Before Women had Wings
— -
"Vicki Covington's essays have a mix of Baptist and feminist to them that is amusing, maybe even slightly frightening. That's the edge that carries this collection and what I love, what I find so compelling about it. In that way, Vicki is every Southern woman."
—Nanci Kincaid, author of Crossing Blood
— -
TABLE OF CONTENTS
GIRLS AND WOMEN
Women in a Man's World, Crying 3
The Girls' Locker Room 6
Her Breast 9
Women in Prison 12
Nails 15
Girls Playing Hardball 18
The Father-Daughter Game 21
NEIGHBORHOOD
A Southern Thanksgiving 27
Donor 30
A Simple Life 33
Recipes and the Friends Who Went with Them 36
Barbie 39
School Lunch 42
Michael Jordan's Midlife Crisis 44
DEATH
Burying Annie 49
Crossing the Viaduct 52
My Mother's Brain 55
Race Car Drivers and Writers 58
December, a Grandmother's Dying 61
Nixon 64
Jackie 67
The Mouse 70
THE SOUTH
The South Catches On to AIDS 75
The AIDS Care Team 78
The Family Reunion 81
Grits 84
The Southern Art of Feeding 87
Museum 89
The Disappearing South 92
SPIRITUAL MATTERS
The Star of Wonder 97
Jan, My Cousin 100
The Apple Tree 103
Mother's Day 105
Other People's Hell 108
Normandy 110
Letters from the War 113
On Marriage 116
A Feminist Easter 119
Eros 122
The Moon, Twenty-five Years Later 125
WRITING
Walking on Water 131
Writers Don't Wear Petticoats 137
Imagination's Birth 140
The Horse 144
The House Within 148
Epilogue 155
ABOUT THIS BOOK | AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY | REVIEWS | TOC