Mama, PhD: Women Write about Motherhood and Academic Life
edited by Elrena Evans and Caroline Grant foreword by Miriam Peskowitz
Rutgers University Press, 2008 eISBN: 978-0-8135-8083-8 | Paper: 978-0-8135-4318-5 | Cloth: 978-0-8135-4317-8 Library of Congress Classification LC1568.M35 2008 Dewey Decimal Classification 378.155082
ABOUT THIS BOOK | AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY | REVIEWS | TOC
ABOUT THIS BOOK
Every year, American universities publish glowing reports stating their commitment to diversity, often showing statistics of female hires as proof of success. Yet, although women make up increasing numbers of graduate students, graduate degree recipients, and even new hires, academic life remains overwhelming a man's world. The reality that the statistics fail to highlight is that the presence of women, specifically those with children, in the ranks of tenured faculty has not increased in a generation. Further, those women who do achieve tenure track placement tend to report slow advancement, income disparity, and lack of job satisfaction compared to their male colleagues.
Amid these disadvantages, what is a Mama, PhD to do? This literary anthology brings together a selection of deeply felt personal narratives by smart, interesting women who explore the continued inequality of the sexes in higher education and suggest changes that could make universities more family-friendly workplaces.
The contributors hail from a wide array of disciplines and bring with them a variety of perspectives, including those of single and adoptive parents. They address topics that range from the level of policy to practical day-to-day concerns, including caring for a child with special needs, breastfeeding on campus, negotiating viable maternity and family leave policies, job-sharing and telecommuting options, and fitting into desk/chair combinations while eight months pregnant.
Candid, provocative, and sometimes with a wry sense of humor, the thirty-five essays in this anthology speak to and offer support for any woman attempting to combine work and family, as well as anyone who is interested in improving the university's ability to live up to its reputation to be among the most progressive of American institutions.
AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY
Elrena Evans received her MFA in creative writing from The Pennsylvania State University, and is a columnist for Literary Mama. Her work also appears in the anthologies Twentysomething Essays by Twentysomething Writers and How to Fit a Car Seat on a Camel.
Caroline Grant is Senior Editor and a columnist for Literary Mama. She holds a PhD in comparative literature from the University of California at Berkeley.
REVIEWS
"Well-written, personal, insightful and engaging, Mama, PhD gives an accurate glimpse into the feelings and conflicts that mothers in academia don't often reveal because such disclosure is felt to be unprofessional."
— Karen V. Hansen, author of Not-So-Nuclear Families: Class, Gender, and Networks of Care
"All those sleepless nights and dirty diapers and baby food in your hair-where's the discursive construction of motherhood when you need it? It's here, in these smart, funny, poignant essays that struggle to balance mind and body, to balance body and soul."
— Catherine Newman, PhD, author of Waiting for Birdy
"Through the voices of those who have weathered the storm, Mama, PhD provides invaluable lessons for young scholars-both men and women-striving to navigate family and academic careers."
— Robert Drago, author of Striking a Balance: Work, Family, Life
"This is a charming, heartfelt book that expresses the difficulties and the joys of combining a life in academia with motherhood. Each story is different, but the experiences and challenges are widely shared."
— Mary Ann Mason, author of Mothers on the Fast Track: How a New Generation Can Balance Families
"Each writer beautifully articulates the personal details of her own experiences. Whether working to conceal their family lives in order to maintain professional credibility, fighting with administrators for fair and flexible treatment, defiantly toting infants into the offices of their advisers, or dropping out of academia to search for different ways to combine intellect and motherhood, the contributors to Mama, PhD offer themselves up as potential role models to women wondering how to tackle these two demanding responsibilities."
— Katura Reynolds, Bitch Magazine
"An optimistic narrative of work-family balance among women with PhDs. Mama PhD gave advice about achieving a successful work-family balance in academia, presented several models of success, and left me with a more optimistic view of my chances at balancing child raising with s successful career."
— Arielle Kuperberg, Women's Studies Quarterly
"A unique and potent mixture of memoir, analysis, and advocacy. Mama PhD stands out in its ability to blend testimony, analysis, and advocacy, from a variety of perspectives. This volume raises striking questions about women's changing roles."
— Feminist Teacher
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Contents
Foreword
Miriam Peskowitz
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Part One: The Conversation
The Conversation
Jamie Warner
In Medias Res
Sonya Huber
Scholar, Negated
Jessica Smartt Gullion
Student/Body
Sheila Squillante
On Being Phyllis's Daughter: Thoughts on Academic Intimacy
Laura Levitt
Engineering Motherhood
Jennifer Eyre White
The Wire Mother
Susan O'Doherty
Fitting In
Elrena Evans
Motherhood after Tenure: Confessions of a Late Bloomer
Aeron Haynie
Part Two: That Mommy Thing
First Day of School
Amy Hudock
Two Boards and a Passion: On Theatre, Academia, and the Art of Failure
Anjalee Deshpande Nadkarni
Living (!) A Life I Never Planned
Rosemarie Emanuele
Coming to Terms at Full Term
Natalie Kertes Weaver
One Mam 's Dispensable Myths and Indispensable Machines
Angelica Duran
That Mommy Thing
Alissa McElreath
Failure to Progress: What Having a Baby Taught Me About Aristotle, Advanced Degrees, Developmental Delays, and Other Natural Disasters
Irena Auerbuch Smith
Infinite Calculations
Della Fenster
I Stand Here Teaching: Tillie Olsen and Maternity in the Classroom
Julia Lisella
The Facts, The Stories
Leah Bradshaw
I Am Not a Head on a Stick: On Being a Teacher and a Doctor and a Mommy
Elisabeth Rose Gruner
Lip Service
Jennifer Cognard-Black
Body Double
Leslie Leyland Fields
Part Three: Recovering Academic
The Long and Winding Road
Jean Kazez
The Bags I Carried
Caroline Grant
One of the Boys
Martha Ellis Crone
Free to Be_ Mom and Me: Finding My Complicated Truth as an Academic Daughter
Megan Pincus Kajitani
Non-Traditional Academics: At Home with Children and a PhD
Susan Bassow, Dana Campbell, Liz Stockwell
A Great Place to Have a Baby
Rebecca Steinitz
Recovering Academic
Jennifer Margulis
Part Four: Momifesto
The Orange Kangaroo
Nicole Cooley, Julia Spicher Kasdorf
Ideal Mama, Ideal Worker: Negotiating Guilt and Shame in Academe
Jean-Anne Sutherland
In Theory/In Practice: On Choosing Children and the Academy
Lisa Harper
Motherhood is Easy; Graduate School is Hard
Tedra Osell
Momifesto: Affirmations for the Academic Mother
Cynthia Kuhn, Josie Mills, Christy Rowe, Erin Webster Garrett
In Dreams Begin Possibilities-Or, Anybody Have Time for a Change?
Judith Sanders
Contributors
Mama, PhD: Women Write about Motherhood and Academic Life
edited by Elrena Evans and Caroline Grant foreword by Miriam Peskowitz
Rutgers University Press, 2008 eISBN: 978-0-8135-8083-8 Paper: 978-0-8135-4318-5 Cloth: 978-0-8135-4317-8
Every year, American universities publish glowing reports stating their commitment to diversity, often showing statistics of female hires as proof of success. Yet, although women make up increasing numbers of graduate students, graduate degree recipients, and even new hires, academic life remains overwhelming a man's world. The reality that the statistics fail to highlight is that the presence of women, specifically those with children, in the ranks of tenured faculty has not increased in a generation. Further, those women who do achieve tenure track placement tend to report slow advancement, income disparity, and lack of job satisfaction compared to their male colleagues.
Amid these disadvantages, what is a Mama, PhD to do? This literary anthology brings together a selection of deeply felt personal narratives by smart, interesting women who explore the continued inequality of the sexes in higher education and suggest changes that could make universities more family-friendly workplaces.
The contributors hail from a wide array of disciplines and bring with them a variety of perspectives, including those of single and adoptive parents. They address topics that range from the level of policy to practical day-to-day concerns, including caring for a child with special needs, breastfeeding on campus, negotiating viable maternity and family leave policies, job-sharing and telecommuting options, and fitting into desk/chair combinations while eight months pregnant.
Candid, provocative, and sometimes with a wry sense of humor, the thirty-five essays in this anthology speak to and offer support for any woman attempting to combine work and family, as well as anyone who is interested in improving the university's ability to live up to its reputation to be among the most progressive of American institutions.
AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY
Elrena Evans received her MFA in creative writing from The Pennsylvania State University, and is a columnist for Literary Mama. Her work also appears in the anthologies Twentysomething Essays by Twentysomething Writers and How to Fit a Car Seat on a Camel.
Caroline Grant is Senior Editor and a columnist for Literary Mama. She holds a PhD in comparative literature from the University of California at Berkeley.
REVIEWS
"Well-written, personal, insightful and engaging, Mama, PhD gives an accurate glimpse into the feelings and conflicts that mothers in academia don't often reveal because such disclosure is felt to be unprofessional."
— Karen V. Hansen, author of Not-So-Nuclear Families: Class, Gender, and Networks of Care
"All those sleepless nights and dirty diapers and baby food in your hair-where's the discursive construction of motherhood when you need it? It's here, in these smart, funny, poignant essays that struggle to balance mind and body, to balance body and soul."
— Catherine Newman, PhD, author of Waiting for Birdy
"Through the voices of those who have weathered the storm, Mama, PhD provides invaluable lessons for young scholars-both men and women-striving to navigate family and academic careers."
— Robert Drago, author of Striking a Balance: Work, Family, Life
"This is a charming, heartfelt book that expresses the difficulties and the joys of combining a life in academia with motherhood. Each story is different, but the experiences and challenges are widely shared."
— Mary Ann Mason, author of Mothers on the Fast Track: How a New Generation Can Balance Families
"Each writer beautifully articulates the personal details of her own experiences. Whether working to conceal their family lives in order to maintain professional credibility, fighting with administrators for fair and flexible treatment, defiantly toting infants into the offices of their advisers, or dropping out of academia to search for different ways to combine intellect and motherhood, the contributors to Mama, PhD offer themselves up as potential role models to women wondering how to tackle these two demanding responsibilities."
— Katura Reynolds, Bitch Magazine
"An optimistic narrative of work-family balance among women with PhDs. Mama PhD gave advice about achieving a successful work-family balance in academia, presented several models of success, and left me with a more optimistic view of my chances at balancing child raising with s successful career."
— Arielle Kuperberg, Women's Studies Quarterly
"A unique and potent mixture of memoir, analysis, and advocacy. Mama PhD stands out in its ability to blend testimony, analysis, and advocacy, from a variety of perspectives. This volume raises striking questions about women's changing roles."
— Feminist Teacher
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Contents
Foreword
Miriam Peskowitz
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Part One: The Conversation
The Conversation
Jamie Warner
In Medias Res
Sonya Huber
Scholar, Negated
Jessica Smartt Gullion
Student/Body
Sheila Squillante
On Being Phyllis's Daughter: Thoughts on Academic Intimacy
Laura Levitt
Engineering Motherhood
Jennifer Eyre White
The Wire Mother
Susan O'Doherty
Fitting In
Elrena Evans
Motherhood after Tenure: Confessions of a Late Bloomer
Aeron Haynie
Part Two: That Mommy Thing
First Day of School
Amy Hudock
Two Boards and a Passion: On Theatre, Academia, and the Art of Failure
Anjalee Deshpande Nadkarni
Living (!) A Life I Never Planned
Rosemarie Emanuele
Coming to Terms at Full Term
Natalie Kertes Weaver
One Mam 's Dispensable Myths and Indispensable Machines
Angelica Duran
That Mommy Thing
Alissa McElreath
Failure to Progress: What Having a Baby Taught Me About Aristotle, Advanced Degrees, Developmental Delays, and Other Natural Disasters
Irena Auerbuch Smith
Infinite Calculations
Della Fenster
I Stand Here Teaching: Tillie Olsen and Maternity in the Classroom
Julia Lisella
The Facts, The Stories
Leah Bradshaw
I Am Not a Head on a Stick: On Being a Teacher and a Doctor and a Mommy
Elisabeth Rose Gruner
Lip Service
Jennifer Cognard-Black
Body Double
Leslie Leyland Fields
Part Three: Recovering Academic
The Long and Winding Road
Jean Kazez
The Bags I Carried
Caroline Grant
One of the Boys
Martha Ellis Crone
Free to Be_ Mom and Me: Finding My Complicated Truth as an Academic Daughter
Megan Pincus Kajitani
Non-Traditional Academics: At Home with Children and a PhD
Susan Bassow, Dana Campbell, Liz Stockwell
A Great Place to Have a Baby
Rebecca Steinitz
Recovering Academic
Jennifer Margulis
Part Four: Momifesto
The Orange Kangaroo
Nicole Cooley, Julia Spicher Kasdorf
Ideal Mama, Ideal Worker: Negotiating Guilt and Shame in Academe
Jean-Anne Sutherland
In Theory/In Practice: On Choosing Children and the Academy
Lisa Harper
Motherhood is Easy; Graduate School is Hard
Tedra Osell
Momifesto: Affirmations for the Academic Mother
Cynthia Kuhn, Josie Mills, Christy Rowe, Erin Webster Garrett
In Dreams Begin Possibilities-Or, Anybody Have Time for a Change?
Judith Sanders
Contributors
ABOUT THIS BOOK | AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY | REVIEWS | TOC